Wednesday, January 27, 2010

dating



i had a date with this guy last week. and tonight we are having another. it's a new year's resolution of sorts: dating more. the truth is, sometimes i get too focused on 'what needs to be done' in my job as an employee or as a mother and fail to pay enough attention to the privilege it is to be his wife.

as you can tell from this photo - taken during one of his travels last year that took him far and wide across the country and beyond borders - he is funny. he also charms my socks off. and when we are able to sit down and focus and enjoy it for a couple of hours, we have a really, really good time.

i'm excited. and also wondering what to wear.

Thursday, January 21, 2010

the half birthday

Junie Bear. What I want to remember about this time:

You've learned to hold the 'tripod' pose quite well lately. But capturing a grin like this is next to impossible. You're a rather stoic young lady.

Although you girls might not know it yet, you are best friends.

The 'half birthday' crew cuddling while you napped.

Dearest baby girl, you are already six months old.
I'll be honest, there have been moments when I wished away your tiny baby stage - when you were inconsolible some nights early on. Lately though, I have found myself clinging to you a little bit tighter. Hoping you'll be still and let me cuddle you just a bit longer. That I can freeze frame this time in my mind and pull it back up when you are toddling away from me soon.
Today you spent the morning at Oma's house, and she took these delightful pictures. You had Antsy, G-lou, Clemie, and Reddy for company too. I went straight from work to take you to the doctor's office so we could find out about a yucky cough you've been fighting for several days. Turns out, you have your first ear infection. And getting the antibiotic in you might just take an act of Congress.
Right now you are down the hall in your crib, sleeping soundly next to the hum of the vaporizer. Your brother is potty training this week, which garners lots of attention, and you gladly offer those priceless smiles up for him. We've been keeping you awake a few minutes after that crazy boy goes to bed though just so we can stare back into those attentive eyes and get to know you a little more. I hope we are always close - that this bond we've formed in six short months doesn't dim. You make me beam with pride just by your being alive.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

peas

Wanna hear the excuses i got for why RM couldn't eat his peas the other day? All phrases accompanied by wide-eyed expression of delight and wonder:

1. "Gummies!?!?!?!?"
2. "Shhhh. They (the peas) are sleeping."
3. "Hear dat? Wisten! I hear da cheese."
4. "Ice Cream!?!?!?!"
5. "Mommy bike dat pea?"
6. "Awwwergic. Reddy Awwwergic." (pointing to peas.)

Seriously. I'm not kidding. Lately, he's been using these other tactics. Humoring me. Humoring himself. Asking if I want a bite. Requesting items NOT on the menu, some of which he is actually allergic to. Insisting that he is allergic to the one nutritious option.

When people told me parenting was hard, I really didn't expect the reason to be that I was strugging against a two year old stand up comic.

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Not to be too graphic, but the boy darted away to the corner this evening to accomplish his business. Incidentally, his father did the same thing at this age, and told his mom, "Don't mess with me." Karma is a... bad, bad thing.


Ah yes, what would New Years Eve be without an unexpected trip to the doctor's office? RM went sliding into a corner baseboard (we think) and started gushing blood. Calm Oma encouraged superglue and a bandaid. Panicked Momma opted for dermabond from the professionals. Hopefully the scar won't be too bad.


Christmas break can best be summized in this photo right here: I call it "Elf Blur". RM, in his beloved Oma-made Santa hat, whizzing around in cozy pants at home. His mom loves cozy pants. And she had a lovely break from work, so cozy pants were a family affair.

Wednesday, January 06, 2010

an Epiphany Day baby and an epiphany for the bug.

I got to chat on the phone with Tootie.

Evelyn: "Ohhhh, I am so excited Toot. I can't wait to meet her. We are so proud of you."

The labor was long. But true to her nature, she kicked The Fall in the face and said, natural childbirth for me please.

Looking at J'bug I said, "You aren't the littlest pip squeak anymore. Time to get moving squirt. But not too fast. I still like snuggling you up." I put her in her crib and she pushed her chest off the mattress and grinned at me. She inched her diapered bottom up in the air and crammed her fingers in her mouth. Lights out.

Talking to Nanni ten minutes later. We're both squealing over another neice. A cousin for our baby girls. A sister for JG & E. The SIXTH baby girl in 2.5 years. They are going to have sooo much fun together.

J'bug starts screaming in her crib. The kind of scared-baby-cry that isn't normal. I run in there and find her quite startled. But she'd heeded my advice.

She'd flipped over.

Friday, January 01, 2010

Merry Merry...


Christmas Eve we got home and snug in time for Santa to get some work done... The morning was sweet and quiet, streaming carols over the computer and opening the stocking in the bed together... then presents under the tree. Here are a few photos to record it.


oooh, momma you need some cucumbers on those eyes.


Looking at loot from the stocking


The morning tree... with J'bug for size comparison.


I mean, how smitten am I by these smiles?


He got a 'spoon man' in the stocking too. Very popular.


Baby girl smocked Christmas dress? i could eat her up.


After our opening (no flash).


one of our playmobil people made it on top of the table centerpiece. Hmmm.

Photos... The Holiday Variety Pack

Just a sampling of pictures from the last month that are otherwise non-categorical.

Like this crazy boy running. I'm just liking that i caught the still frame. And that he has this cute outfit with an electric guitar on it.


We went to our friend Liam's first birthday and went home with a present too. RM loooooves "P-doh" and making the monkey's hair grow.


Baby C and J'bug together. The bestest of five month old friends and cousins.


Ya know, just 'cause i can't resist these bright eyes and lashes.


And finally, one of sweet Meredith. She has been keeping the kids one day a week since I went back to work. And kept RM when he was a baby too. My maid-of-honor, my next-door-dorm-mate in college, and the most FUN to be around for RM and J'bug. He regularly takes 4 hour naps after a morning with Mer. Anyway, she bought J'bug this cute Christmas romper so we snagged a quick picture.

Photos... Picking out the Tree


the fam

being two. checking out nature. unsure of his new boots.

watching the chain saw. measuring to be sure it's 'just right'.

J'bug working those fingers, hoping sleep will come.

going for a tractor 'ride' while we watched the tree get tied up.

Over Thanksgiving weekend we picked the Tree. RM made friends with a farmer, his chickens and rooster, his tractor, several of the hired help who cut down our tree, and basically every stick available for him to carry around.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

christmas moments

1. The highlight of Christmas Eve? I'll give you a hint. It was NOT the family worship service. I'd love to say it was, but I'd be lying. It WAS... drum roll please... RM going #2 in the big boy potty at Aunt Antsy's house. The entire family gave him a standing ovation.

2. Junebug received a GLOW-WORM for Christmas from our sweet neighbors. I haven't seen one in 20 years. It is so cute. Tonight i turned the lullaby on in her crib and she just STARED at it with fascination. Thanks "Honey" dog!

3. RM upon seeing J'bug in her Christmas dress from Great Aunt Billie and examining the smocking: "Reindeer! Santa! Tall Tree! Junie pretty."

4. Hosting Christmas brunch at our house for the first time. Quiche, Mimosas, Grits and Field Greens with berries & goat cheese. Pops reading A Cup of Christmas Tea. Oma's handmade stockings. Uncle Mombus' calming presence. Divine.

5. The mountains welcoming us with open arms Christmas night. RM actually trembling with delight upon the sight a big boy tricycle! Lamb with KK & Grandad, and a wood burning fire popping and spitting while winds shook the house.

6. Evelyn & Floyd having time for just the two of us. Dinner with friends on the way home. June laughing out loud for maybe the third time in her life. People enjoying it with us.

What is the saying? Life is good?
It is. It really, really is.

Gibbs Gazette 2009

*** spoiler alert ***

if you have not received, and would like to receive a paper copy of the gazette, puh-leeese let me know. i would hate to disappoint anyone with the electronic version if said person had their heart set on pulling the card from the envelope. that being said, i do have two young children, so my heart is not set on making sure that everyone gets exactly what they want... i.e. - said hard copy via snail mail. i assure you no ill-will is meant by the oversight.

*** on to the scheduled year end review, Floyd-style ***



Dearest Friends and Family,

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year from the Gibbs Family!

What a year! The economy worsened; Tebow cried – again – and a lot; we lost Michael Jackson, Farrah Fawcett & Billy Mays in, like, 36 hrs; and Oprah announced she will leave millions of desperate women in a lurch as early as 2011… This one really kept us on our toes.

It was a pretty eventful year not only for our country but also for our little family. It began in an excited headlong pitch: We stepped into the ring with our gloves on, so to speak.

Winter 2009: I tore the kitchen to pieces on a whim and, assisted by my brother-in-law, rebuilt it in a few days, before flying to LA to record. Danielle was working in the office with her chin set and the pragmatic, slightly annoyed work ethic of a no- nonsense expectant mother. Red Marshall reached forward in time and, with a clean jerk, wrested the “terrible twos” out of its appropriate place in childhood to claim them for his own as a 16-month-old.

Spring 2009: We dug our heels in and awaited the birth of our daughter. We showed no fear, no hesitation. But it wasn’t enough…we felt we hadn’t truly been challenged. My wife shook her fist at 2009. “We will renovate the basement! Right...NOW!”

Summer 2009: At the height of the upstate summer, when 7 am feels like the Seventh Circle of Hell and you can’t bring yourself to imagine 2pm, my wife, now great with child; our son, now showcasing the energy of a radioactive hummingbird; and I, dangerously short on dream fuel after the reality of “touring” had kicked me in the chin, moved into my in-laws’ house while the construction crew tore our basement asunder.

We barely had time to unpack when, from the West, I heard the thundering of hooves, and a herd of the wild and unbroken Colorado Clan descended upon the in-laws’ house. Within a week there were nine humans under the same roof, many of them under five…. There was no peace. None. I sought clemency in Canada as a hastily booked tour took me away.

In late July our daughter, June Evelien Gibbs, was born. She was gorgeous and dangerous. She screamed for three months without ceasing. We parted ways with sanity and decency. We saw neither sun nor moon. There was only screaming. Then one day in October, as a ship breaks from a perilous gale into sunlight, she was silent. We reunited with sleep & humanity.

Fall 2009: We moved back to our home to find it dramatically changed. I still drop trash on the floor in a kitchen corner, where I am sure our garbage was once stationed. We transitioned into a steady and peaceful lull. Red Marshall began cultivating an escalating obsession with lawn equipment and tools, and a now serene and observant Junebug watches us all with her impossibly beautiful eyes…they remind me of someone.

blessings to you.

Floyd, for all of us.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Girl at print shop gave me a funny look and asked me some bizarre question. "Oh, you mean from the gazette? Right, well I can explain. Our humor is well, weird"

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Dear RM, the past 2 nights you have climbed out of your crib. Thought it was a fluke - it is not. You are the first of the 10 cousins to do it. I am not ready.

Wednesday, December 09, 2009

gazetting

if you know what The Gazette is, then you might like to know that i commissioned the '09 edition tonight and Floyd worked up a draft that left tears streaming down my cheeks. if i'm the only person who laughs at it, i'm okay with that. because my husband is the funniest man on the planet. and i am a better person because of his perspective on our little slice of the world.

Monday, December 07, 2009

giving thanks... a little late


we spent our Thanksgiving Holiday in the mountains. While two years ago there was the 'sleep-walking incident' and last year there was the 'tree farm mud incident', this year seemed relatively mishap free!


Aunt Amy & Uncle Ole were home from Washington state!


Grandad gave scooter rides multiple times each day.


Our pretty girl got to wear her beautiful day gown from KK.


And we even managed to get a Gibbs' family photo taken! Yahoo.


There was a party for the glowing parents-to-be.


Let me tell you, making sure the two year old kept his grubby paws off of his cousin-to-be's gifts was no easy task.


Fortunately there were distractions for him such as roasting marshmellows!


See all the fun? Note the Evelyn & Floyd family unit sequestered in the corner.



And lastly, proof that the boy is still giving "Thumb Kisses" to his sister. And other babies actually. But mostly to J-bug. I actually don't think he knows how to 'kiss' her without his thumb in his mouth.

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Floyd brought the Christmas tree in the house; wielding the large, bailed evergreen precariously through the front door and past the stairwell.

RM: "Oh shit."

Friday, November 20, 2009

Who knew it was possible for siblings to be so different. June's four month stats: 12lbs 2oz. 18th percentile. (For reference, RM was almost 18lbs - 97th %!)

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

current musings + amusing reflections = this post

I ran this morning. For the first time in a coon's age. Or at least, the first time i was running for pleasure in a coon's age. I have run, but only out of necessity. I have to admit, I felt a little bit silly and a little bit fun in my running tights. My hip is reminding me that childbirth was not that long ago. But my hot shower felt so gratifying... Ahh.

The baby has a slightly elevated temp, excessive drool, and moderate fussiness. Call nurse like paranoid mother. "Why yes. She is 4 months. No, I hadn't considered that. Yes, I suppose she is within the normal range for beginning teething." Second child is growing too fast.

I was thinking about my office today. The financial advisors moved out a couple of months ago. So no more akward bluetooth moments in the hall. And I always get the 'good stall' in the bathroom - the one with good lighting, and a flush mechanism that works. Oh yeah, and they put in a refurbished snack machine. It's still directly adjacent to the mens' restroom.

Despite our massive renovations, there is still a duct-tape X above my bed. It's nice.

Junie hasn't rolled over yet. I love it. I want her to stay still as loooong as possible. I always thought Red's lack of mobility was due to his enormous size, but now I'm stumped. Because Junie is a peanut.

Friday, November 13, 2009

bright eyes

coy: (koi) adj. Affectedly and usually flirtatiously shy or modest.


Another one from Rebekah... I am serious, if you need a photographer, and you live on the eastern seaboard, she's AMAZING. Lives in Virginia, has camera, will travel. :)

Thursday, November 12, 2009

with a knick-knack, paddy-whack, give the dog a bone...



special alert: Jim Hargate, III seems to have not-so-good luck on Friday the Thirteenth. One such Friday the 13th last year, he was attacked by a raccoon. In broad daylight. This year, he got picked up by animal control and taken to the humane society. Are you kidding me? I mean, look at this guy. Animal Control? Whatever. $50 later... and we can resume the previously posted item.

Just thought I should provide proof that the old man is alive and well. Our fabulous photographer friend can capture his good nature like no other. And special thanks to Pecan Pie Puppies for bestowing this handsome guy upon us three years ago. He is so good.

Monday, November 09, 2009

Evelyn: "RM, what did you do at school today?"

RM: "obey."

Hmmm. I hope so.